King of Hearts

Playing the game of a King you carry the energy of mastery and authority. And yet, the weight of the crown may weigh heavily on your head. Nonetheless, yours is the responsibility to stand up tall and lead the way. If you won’t lead, then who will?

Playing the game of a Heart you bring this energy to all experiences of the heart: emotions, love, and relationships.

It means that your game in life is to be a heartfelt leader. Yours is the emotional intelligence to lead a whole tribe of people, which is how you move mountains with the power of your heart.

How To Read This Page

Above in the banner images, the left side images (top two images if you're viewing it on a phone) are a visual expression of when you may be Off Your Game.

The right side banner image (bottom image on your phone) is a visual representation of what's possible for you when you're On Your Game.

And below is an introductory list of experiences you may have in four important areas of your life when you are either...

On Your Game -- expressing it positively in your life
Off Your Game -- expressing it negatively in your life

King of Hearts: Personal Patterns

Author, creator, and leader of a love that is truly unconditional
Enjoying the pleasure of giving to your family/friends; feeling rewarded by doing acts of loving service
Bossy and controlling; assuming others should do what you say
Acting with stubborn entitlement and getting easily offended if you feel disrespected
Through your own willful and deliberate avoidance, getting blindsided by how people actually feel
Feeling obligated by and overloaded with everyone else's personal problems
Providing a safe harbor and place of peace for everyone around you
And much more...

King of Hearts: Tuned into your own emotions

King of Hearts: Relationship Patterns

The heart-center of your family of loved ones
Tuned into your own emotions so well that you attune others to their emotions as well
Unable to express how you actually feel; inability to communicate clearly
Verbally cutting, argumentative, condescending, and even abusive
Sucking others in to your own emotionally toxic melodrama
Narcissistically believing that everyone around you should care how the king feels
So full of life, love, joy, and kindness that it exudes out from you like a musical symphony
And much more...

King of Hearts: Career Patterns

Keen business savvy and pattern recognition with a mind for negotiation
Gracefully, easily organizing a team of people to get a job done
Taking on too much responsibility and team obligations and getting resentful
Vanity and people-pleasing worries thwart your ability to be a true leader
Feeling the heavy burden of leadership to steer a peaceful course through people's chaos
If angry or affronted, cutting people down with cold ruthlessness
Thriving in partnership with others, as a leader among equals
And much more...

King of Hearts: Health & Wellbeing Patterns

Consciously, proactively doing the counseling to clarify your feelings
Constructing the patterns and routines that best serve your wellbeing
Overworking yourself to the point of a distressing emotional breakdown
Poisoning your own peace of mind with worry and anxiety
Pent up rage explodes suddenly and so violently that it hurts you physically
Over-indulging in all the pleasures of food and drink to the point of hurting your body
Knowing that your emotional wellbeing is the foundation of your physical wellbeing
And much more...

It's All In The Cards!

Was that mind-blowing or what?

Maybe a little confronting?

And totally amazing?

However...

If what you just read about yourself didn’t fully resonate, try this: ask someone who knows you well to read the above list and see if they think it accurately portrays you.