Four of Hearts

Playing the game of a Four you carry the energy of form, stability, foundation, strength, and security.

Playing the game of a Heart you bring this energy to all experiences of the heart: emotions, passion, love, and relationships.

It means that your game in life is to provide a secure framework for love to blossom. You stabilize and strengthen the foundation of healthy relationships.

How To Read This Page

Above in the banner images, the left side image (top image if you're viewing it on a phone) is a visual expression of when you may be Off Your Game.

The right side banner image (bottom image on your phone) is a visual representation of what's possible for you when you're On Your Game.

And below is an introductory list of experiences you may have in four important areas of your life when you are either...

On Your Game -- expressing it positively in your life
Off Your Game -- expressing it negatively in your life

Four of Hearts: Personal Patterns

Naturally able to hold a safe emotional space so that others feel secure
A loyal and trustworthy friend; fair and understanding
Knee-jerk resistance may be your first response to any invitation or request
Operating with an angelic facade of inauthentic, smiling serenity
Pretending you've got it altogether and even acting like a bully if others question you
Acting out of obligation; acting the way you think a loving person is supposed to act
Easy-going and easy-to-talk-to; a true people person
And much more...

Four of Hearts: Relationship Patterns

Emotional strength to hold the family unit together; courageously present for your loved ones
Deeply passionate, mischievously fun, and endlessly playful
Taking on your partner's emotions as your own and internalizing their feelings
Fixed emotional boundaries can become invisible walls of separation
Making yourself responsible for how your loved ones do and do not feel
Emotionally struggling to make enough space for emotional expression
Offering love unconditionally with a true generosity of spirit
And much more...

4 of Hearts: Stability -- Hands holding hands.

Four of Hearts: Career Patterns

Naturally high EQ (Emotional Quotient) to counsel and advise people
A rock-solid team player who will work hard for your team
Stuck inside self-limiting career options; afraid to take a risk
A push-pull/love-hate relationship with power and authority
Feeling locked into obligations and duties that stifle you and cause resentment
Complacency and smug self-satisfaction may override any personal ambition for growth
Both the wisdom and the courage to apply your talents for the good of all
And much more...

Four of Hearts: Health & Wellbeing Patterns

Genuinely calm and grounded in the midst of whatever life brings
Natural core strength and physical endurance; an ease of physical resilience
Buried, unexpressed emotions eat away at your peace of mind and overall wellbeing
Internalizing the emotions of others can cause you physical suffering
Taking your health for granted may lead you to over-indulge in your passions
Stuck inside a depressing loop of seeking cures for what you can't rationally explain
Healing yourself naturally with the clarity and power of unconditional love
And much more...

It's All In The Cards!

Was that mind-blowing or what?

Maybe a little confronting?

And totally amazing?

However...

If what you just read about yourself didn’t fully resonate, try this: ask someone who knows you well to read the above list and see if they think it accurately portrays you.